Soaring in space

I am a submissive and I spend some of my time in a submissive headspace. I don’t always know whether the term submissive is the correct one for me. I am always a masochist but my submissive nature fluctuates and there are times when I am far more primal than … READ MORE…

A Pinch of This. A Pinch of That.

I have a thing for nipple play. Some would probably describe it as nipple torture but torture doesn’t seem quite the right word to describe such beautiful deep and powerful sensations. Mind you, play seems far too light-hearted for the primal responses that it triggers in me. I like using … READ MORE…

Pegged

I love intensity. I love building layers of sensation. I love, when playing alone, building layers of arousal, going from that sharp intake of breath to a desperate aching need for more. This morning, I grabbed the pegs. Instead of building layers of arousal before applying them, I used them … READ MORE…

Am I masochistic submissive, or am I a submissive masochist?

Am I masochistic submissive, or am I a submissive masochist? Maybe I am a masochist and a submissive. I have had this tumbling around in my head for a while and then the lovely Malin asked me the following question: What is the interrelationship between masochism and submission for you? … READ MORE…