I have an evolving relationship with the cane. At the beginning, I was scared of it. I tried to avoid thinking about it. It was a cane that was used for a punishment early in this relationship. That was my first experience with a cane and it is no surprise that I was so tense that I hated it.

Over time, the cane has been used for rewards as well. I have desperately done my very best to earn a caning. I haven’t always understood why, but the cane, even when I was scared of it, held great power over me. I started to crave it.

Now, I am falling in love with the cane. When the mood is right, I find being caned deeply peaceful and relaxing. It hurts, of course, and my Master can cane me in a way that I hate if he wishes but mostly I have been indulged with beautiful, pleasurable canings recently that totally ground and centre me.

Here is the evidence of this afternoon’s happiness.

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I wish you could have seen the happy grin on my face or heard me giggling with joy.

If his cane ever breaks, I will be rushing to replace it. Do I love the cane? I think I do.

Who else is sharing today?

Sinful Sunday

13 Replies to “Is this love?”

  1. I am not a huge lover of the cane and yet, like you, it has a real power for me but that is because I know if I grit my teeth and endure it, it will reward me with marks that I fucking LOVE

    Mollyxxx

  2. Those are some beautiful marks.

    I wish I could grow to love the cane in the way you do. I am still more on the hate side of this love/hate relationship…

    Rebel xox

  3. The thought of being struck with a cane makes my bottom clench and draw away from the seat but I can appreciate the feeling of being grounded and the joy of finding something that does that for you X

  4. I love the look of cane marks but right now I’m still so scared of it it’s still on my soft limits list. I know one day I’ll overcome it but I’m not quite there yet.

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