I was away this week. There was a last minute change of plan as to where I stayed. Although the place was beautiful, it had no signal or Wi-Fi. Normally that would be a minor inconvenience. Unfortunately, as I wasn’t forewarned, I hadn’t prepared emotionally for that. I had the space to think about the major and stressful decisions that I have to make and the dramatic changes that I need to plan. All of that was very unsettling and I started to fray from the inside. Normally talking to my man would hold me together and keep me grounded but that wasn’t possible. Luckily for me, I had one of his belts with me. Normally his belts trigger lustful, needy and very sexual thoughts in me. This last week was different. I wore it each day and it held me together. It was a physical link to the emotional safety that he always gives me. Sometimes I need the physical to keep me grounded emotionally.
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What a lovely way to stay grounded and feel safe.
Hope you are feeling better, honey!
Rebel xox
I am. I have bounced back to life today. My drive is back and the world is full of opportunities for delight. Xx
awesome post!
Fantastic that you had His belt xxx
i love this because i can feel the safety and security that you mention in the photo…lovely!
Oh I would be exactly the same. If I could plan for it that would be one thing but just finding myself in that situation would have completely thrown me off and I totally get the belt… I find myself wondering if you slept with it near you too.
Mollyxxx
I also find that something physical can keep me grounded emotionally. When stressed, I often realise I am twirling with my wedding ring, for example.
Oh what a lovely post. Glad you got through the week. Cx
That is a sexy perspective. Something about a belt and jeans is hot to me. And your hand…I wonder where it will go and do. My gaze fixated on your hand.
That’s why I like rope so much…
Great pic!
~Kazi xxx
How wonderful that you had something physical to support you when you felt lost. This is such a great post, and a really intimate photo! Xxx
i totally get you on this one
I understand that need completely. I’ll often wear something of Sir’s when he isn’t here…I absolutely need that extra level of connection to calm my mind and stop the mind fray from taking over xx
Great shot.
Always great feeling having something of your partners to keep you secure. 🙂
This is a beautiful photo, made more compelling by your words. I love the metaphor of the belt holding you together. Really powerful stuff.
Love this photo, the angle is spot on!
I struggle to cope without connectivity even if I’m prepared for it so well done for holding it together! Having his belt must have been a lifesaver.