Let’s talk about boobs. I am sure that it is no surprise to visitors to my blog that I have big boobs. They certainly came to my notice as soon as puberty struck. Over time, they got more and more noticeable.
I remember being told very clearly in my early teens that I was lucky, that I would always be confident because that, apparently, comes as a special extra with every set of big boobs (spoiler – it doesn’t).
What nobody mentioned was that others would be negative to me because of those boobs. I had female acquaintances talk about me in changing rooms. “Have you seen how big her boobs are? Ridiculous. No-one needs them that big.”
I used to shrug it off. After all there really isn’t much point engaging with those sort of comments.
I hoped that leaving teenage years behind would leave those comments behind. The changing room ones stopped but were replaced with new ones. Men have felt it only fair to tell me, “I prefer small breasts”, “Any more than a handful is a waste” or “Big boobs don’t do it for me”. I wish I wasn’t as polite as I am. I am not sure what the preferred response would be. Maybe “Oh, I wish you had said. I would have put my petite breasts on if I had known.” Luckily, I haven’t felt inclined to humiliate them with comments about their bodies and my preferences. I really believe that body positivity is integral to who I am and I won’t damage my own integrity even when hurt.
It shouldn’t surprise me that I have more hangups about people seeing my boobs for the first time than I do for parts like my belly. My belly is fat. That is not a surprise to people. I would be naive to think that people didn’t know that before I take my clothes off. My boobs, however, can be surprise. They aren’t pert. They never have been. My nipples have always been low and pointing down. I could go on about the physical features of my boobs bit suffice it to say, they benefit from support and uplift.
I love my boobs for how they feel, for the amazing sensations when certain things are done to them. My nipples are very sensitive and I can orgasm from nipple stimulation. It has taken me a lot longer to learn to love the way my boobs look and how they behave (seriously – trying to get them to behave in pictures is ridiculous and there are some poses that are just NO). Sometimes, though, the angle, the lighting, the everything is just right and I love my boobs.
My boobs. They’re mine. I didn’t choose them anymore than I chose my height or my shoe size but today, I like what I see.
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Men can often turn out to be different to what you would expect can’t they? We are led to believe that they all like large breasts, want sex all of the time and can take the lead…..when sadly a large number aren’t like that at all and are somewhat underwhelming.
The right one will adore your boobs and treat you as the goddess that you are…..failing that, I’ll apply for the job 😉 xx
This nearly made me snort my coffee out my nose ““Oh, I wish you had said. I would have put my petite breasts on if I had known.””
I have just finished reading subbee’s post which was also about body image. Like your post it is a powerful piece of self identity and acceptance. Oh and your boobs looks absolutely fantastic. You should join in with Hy’s boob day one week too. I have enjoyed focusing on my boobs for that meme
Mollyxxx
You have great boobs.
I am a breast man, but it has nothing to do with quality, size, perkiness (or not), nipples etc. It is, like my taste in cocks, all to do with the person they’re attached to. Hearts, not parts. 🙂
I identify with this so much – I developed really early and had some quite nasty things said to me when I was young because I had the biggest boobs in my social circle. But as I got older I’d get these conflicting messages; other girls would tell me I was lucky to have big boobs because guys were into that, but who wants to be wanted *just* for a single part of their anatomy?! In any case – your breasts look great with all those droplets of water on them, and I’m envious of your superpower of nipplegasm!
They look great to me, especially when wet!
To be honest I haven’t seen a pair I don’t like. I think that makes me a boob girl 💋
Love your sense of humor and commend your restraint to remain body positive.
Of and wether they were behaving or not in the picture that day they are stunning!
Your boobs are absolutely gorgeous and this picture is proof of that!
Rebel xox
Your boobs are beautiful!
“No-one needs them that big”. Really?? I mean, it’s not like you chose them is it!
Funnily enough, I’ve always had the opposite issue. Laughed at in lingerie shops because the assistant said she’d be ashamed to have boobs as small as mine. I was always teased at school and had many partners telling me to leave my bra on because I have nothing to play with so removing it would be pointless.
I guess we only hear those negative comments, the ones that sting and knock our confidence. I can only reiterate what everyone else is saying, your boobs are beautiful.
Absolutely beautiful! (You and your boobs).
Oh Honey, this is a fabulous post! For one thing, that is such a gorgeous photo of your boobs – the water droplets seem to emphasise your curves and the lighting is wonderful. And I love your body positivity. This post has really made me smile! Xxx
That is a gorgeous picture of them and I could so relate to the post
what a perfect image!!! delectable!!!
I often wish I was a rude person as well. I hope at least you have a rude friend with you the next time somebody makes a ridiculous comment like that
Your words say it all . . . your stunning photo makes the point even stronger. I love the droplets, I love the closeness . . . I love it all.
Simply stunning!!!
Xxx – K
Honestly you don’t need to bother what would some people say,especially the negative comments.Your boobs are great and lovely,no matters if they are big or small.But if I may say if the boobs are bigger it’s much simpler and easier to put cock between,so that is a good perk,right 😉 I only wish to find girl like you with bigger boobs,all I can find are small ones and my cock is way too big for them :/
For what it’s worth I find your boobs quite lovely. But then I’ve never seen a pair I disliked.
They are lovely boobs reminds me of a sweet girl who would love me suckle her breasts until she organism. Yours are wonderful