“To me, photography is an art of observation. It’s about finding something interesting in an ordinary place… I’ve found it has little to do with the things you see and everything to do with the way you see them.”
— Elliott Erwitt

I have been trying to express why I have so many pictures and why I take them. This quote captures so much for me. My photographs and those taken by others are all about capturing and expressing aspects of who I am. That’s why there is such variety of mood, attitude and intent. Just like me, my pictures range through hot, sensual, harsh, beautiful and filthy.

Learning photography skills is still on my to-do list as my collection here has always been focused on a thought, mood or moment rather than a technique.

These pictures are a long lasting and still evolving relationship with myself.

My photo posts

  • The Joy of Socks
    As a 70’s child, my friends and I were always very aware of the eye-opening world of wonder of the Joy of Sex being on a bookshelf. For me, early ...
  • Just Press Play
    This is a joint post with my friend B1 about a rather unique scene we recently played together. B1 has written the first section, and my voice is after the ...
  • Caged
    This week has been a lot. I’ve been beaten, belted, whipped and caned. All of those things on multiple days. What happens when a masochistic slut needs a moments rest? ...
  • Learning to love.
    I’ve shared many posts over the years of this blog that let you see how much I struggle with my body image. I have a powerful combination of emotional, mental, ...
  • Le Violon d’Ingres
    The original of this image was created by the very talented Man Ray in 1924. It has always caught my attention, and I have often thought about recreating. Previously, I ...
  • Would you like…
    a lazy Sunday morning cuppa with me?
  • Would you like…
    a lazy Sunday morning cuppa with me?
  • Lost and Found
    Lost in the moment. Found in the connection. Sometimes things are more than just physical.
  • Greedy
    Many of you know that I happily embrace the term greedy. I absolutely adore to enjoy rich and satisfying experiences. My hypersexuality is an aspect of that. I’m not a size ...
  • Rude!
    It’s the Sinful Sunday prompt weekend and the prompt is “R” so prepare yourself for what comes next. Sometimes, with the shit that life throws at us, there is only one ...
  • Twisted and Proud
    I went on a date with a wonderful person. We went back to her hotel and got busy exploring and enjoying ourselves.  Why have I called this posted twisted? It’s because ...
  • Wear your heart on your…
    Some people wear their hearts on their sleeves. Some people keep them locked away. Being so open with my love has caused me so much pain over the last year ...
  • Sun, Sea and Sexy Me
    I ha ent had a chance to be very sexy on this holiday And I haven’t even had space for a wank. But, as you know, it is hard for me ...
  • Ready?
    I adore this image and the ambiguity in it. The normal signs of whether someone is submissive or dominant are blurred, and instead, the image speaks of strength and power. What ...
  • Fill me with need.
    My body reacts every time you talk to me. I ache with desire and want to beg you for more. My mind is filled with hope for the next time. My ...
  • Are you in the moo-ed for fun?
    We could have an udderly good time together.
  • Folds of Time
    Content warning: perimenopause and pain Life is tricky. We all evolve over time. Sometimes, we discover and develop new pleasures. Sometimes, we need to adapt to change. I’ve always had a very ...
  • Wild Blooms.
    “Let us live like flowers, wild and beautiful and drenched in sun.” ―Ellen Everett  
  • Puzzle
    Different shapes, different lives, different edges. A space carved out of life where we both fully exist. The language of words morphs to the language of touch. Connection created. Where does one ...
  • Fuck
    Let your words tumble from the screen into my mind. Let them course through my spirit, along my nerves, making me tremble and catch my breath. Craft their cadence so ...
  • Fiddle
    I am a fidget. I fiddle a lot. It helps me to regulate myself. I often have something in my pocket to fiddle with. Sometimes, I fiddle with myself. Fiddling with ...
  • Anonymous
    Sometimes I am in monochrome, but I am letting you believe in a full colour me.
  • Abstract
    Just a glimpse of me and a hint of the history of the past few days.
  • Two Days Later
    Two days later and I stop half way through getting the tea bag as another memory fills my mind. Two days later and I inhale mindfully as I lean against the ...
  • Reconnect
    What better way to spend some of your day reconnecting with someone special than to delight in the intimacy of rope.