“To me, photography is an art of observation. It’s about finding something interesting in an ordinary place… I’ve found it has little to do with the things you see and everything to do with the way you see them.”
— Elliott Erwitt

I have been trying to express why I have so many pictures and why I take them. This quote captures so much for me. My photographs and those taken by others are all about capturing and expressing aspects of who I am. That’s why there is such variety of mood, attitude and intent. Just like me, my pictures range through hot, sensual, harsh, beautiful and filthy.

Learning photography skills is still on my to-do list as my collection here has always been focused on a thought, mood or moment rather than a technique.

These pictures are a long lasting and still evolving relationship with myself.


My photo posts

  • Oh, Christmas Tree.
    Day 21: and we love a Christmas tree motif at this time of year. Of course, I created mine with boobs and rope.
  • Silence
    Day 20, and I am detouring from the fun  so far. Gisele Pelicot has shown the power of standing up and making people face justice. My anger is that for ...
  • Christmas Buzz
    I am starting to feel the Christmas buzz. Are you? Time to turn it up?
  • Off the Shoulder
    Sometimes, a sexy off the shoulder number is the perfect outfit for a party. Do you agree?
  • Dress Code Violation
    Today, I was meant to be working out what to wear to the work Christmas do. I got distracted, and now I don’t think that this outfit will make the ...
  • Grey Day
    It’s dark and getting close to winter solstice. It’s getting harder and harder to greet the day with energy. But even on the greyest day, it is good to find ...
  • It’s in the details.
    Most of the time, when I think about rope work, I think of ties around the body to hold, restrain, and create. However, today was about the detail and exploring ...
  • Just a…
    mark that tells a story to those who know. For the 13th day of advent, I’m thinking a lot about my body being a canvas and what that means to ...
  • Sexy Thermals.
    Thermal underwear doesn’t have the best reputation as sexy but I feel it works for me with just a little help from my rope. Fancy getting cosy?
  • Love handle
    Some people love boobs. Some people love hips and arse. I hope those people love this love handle. Day 11 of advent and I am inviting you to get a grip. ...
  • Subtly Twisted
    “Is she kinky? Are there any clues?” What do you think? A twisted garland. One step up from turning up with the ready to go down on you, pony tail.
  • Simplici-tea
    What could be more calming than a simple tie and a cup of tea.
  • Beauty without a bow
    A tie can be elegant and beautiful without a bow.  
  • Asymmetrical
    Asymmetry can be so entrancing. Have I caught your eye?
  • Wrapping my leg
    Just think of the possibilities when I’m fully tied.
  • Double Your Coins
    You all knew that it wouldn’t be long until my clothes fell off…
  • Coins
    I love knotwork and couldn’t resist some coin knots for advent day three. Jewelled delight to brighten the season.
  • Cuff
    A single column tie can be the beginning of so many connections.
  • Feeling ropey?
    There have been several times when I have shared images,  some hot, some fun, some sexy, and some last-minute ones too for advent.  One image a day for 24 days ...
  • Colour Fun
    December’s Sinful Sunday prompt is colour filter. I confess that I have been struggling with my mojo and circumstances for creating solo images recently. However, I have a new sexy ...
  • The Joy of Socks
    As a 70’s child, my friends and I were always very aware of the eye-opening world of wonder of the Joy of Sex being on a bookshelf. For me, early ...
  • Just Press Play
    This is a joint post with my friend B1 about a rather unique scene we recently played together. B1 has written the first section, and my voice is after the ...
  • Caged
    This week has been a lot. I’ve been beaten, belted, whipped and caned. All of those things on multiple days. What happens when a masochistic slut needs a moments rest? ...
  • Learning to love.
    I’ve shared many posts over the years of this blog that let you see how much I struggle with my body image. I have a powerful combination of emotional, mental, ...
  • Le Violon d’Ingres
    The original of this image was created by the very talented Man Ray in 1924. It has always caught my attention, and I have often thought about recreating. Previously, I ...