HappyComeLucky

Life has many amazing experiences and some of the most significant ones are tied to celebrating stages of life and being with those who are important to us.

A lot of those celebrations are well defined by society and culture with long sets of expectations and rules. It isn’t unusual to feel so wrapped in those expectations that the individual needs and characters of those at the centre are lost or pushed to the side.

In the light of all of this, the times when a celebration is utterly the right thing for the people involved, when all the parts that are just because someone else says so are stripped away and the events are the perfect expression of the moment and the awesome relationship being celebrated.

Last summer,I had the honour of being a witness to the civil partnership of Sub Bee and Beekeeper. The feast that we had afterwards definitely deviated from those arranged by the mainstream wedding planners. I am not sure that any future feast will ever be able to match the exquisite perfection of this one.

This was a feast that was filled with joy from the first moments of planning, to the procurement of the best items to help with serving the food up, to laying out the feast, and of course, indulging in the pleasures that the food gave us. The feast itself was a mix of ridiculously hot sexiness of the platter that was Sub Bee and the noises of pleasure, delight and giggling teasing that came from Beekeeper, Euclidian Point, Beau du Jour and myslef as we tweaked, poked, nibbled, licked, sucked and bit to get each morsel of pleasure that was laid out for us.

I wonder whether we should start planning how to celebrate their anniversary.

If you have ever wondered how to queer Nyotaimori, i heartily recommend using a hot, sexy non binary person who wriggles more than a little and definitely giggles, then add fruit, chocolate, meringues, cream and marshmallows and a group of delighful perverts to enjoy it.