“To me, photography is an art of observation. It’s about finding something interesting in an ordinary place… I’ve found it has little to do with the things you see and everything to do with the way you see them.”
— Elliott Erwitt

I have been trying to express why I have so many pictures and why I take them. This quote captures so much for me. My photographs and those taken by others are all about capturing and expressing aspects of who I am. That’s why there is such variety of mood, attitude and intent. Just like me, my pictures range through hot, sensual, harsh, beautiful and filthy.

Learning photography skills is still on my to-do list as my collection here has always been focused on a thought, mood or moment rather than a technique.

These pictures are a long lasting and still evolving relationship with myself.

My photo posts

  • Tension
    I like to push myself in all sorts of new ways. One of those ways is finding interesting ways to play with desire for pain. It can be hard to ...
  • Brief Encounter
    I previously owned a harness but I have decided to find out how good these briefs are. Looks good to me. I am sure it will feel good too. Want ...
  • Shameless Plug
    Right now, my libido is definitely high. Instead of trying to manage it, I am reveling in the delight of feeling this way. I am embracing who I am instead ...
  • Clean Start
    The bright morning light and stepping out of the shower makes me feel like the day has possibilities. Who else is sharing?
  • Undiluted Honey
    You get what you see. I am sweet and sticky and messy. I’m in a new chapter of my life and exploring being just me. Honey is good for you!
  • Mindfully Me
    The prompt for Wicked Wednesday is mental health and I have written about my bad times with mine several times including most recently here. So, for today, I am sharing ...
  • Cold?
  • Space
    This bed has an empty space. I wish you were here filling it.
  • Highlights
    Love, delight and joy falls in our lives in different amounts. When those things are against a darker background, the contrast makes them more beautiful. Sometimes into all of our lives, ...
  • Pegged Free.
    I am a masochist. Sometimes I need pain. Yesterday, I was so tense at the beginning of what was a treat for me that needed to lose myself before I ...
  • Hopes, dreams and lustful desires.
    I am a weird contradiction at times. I am both laid back and driven. Just thinking about writing some experience goals has made me look at myself and reflect on ...
  • F is for…
    In the nineteenth century, fans were often used for modesty or flirtation as much as for cooling things down. I’ll let you decide which of those this fan is being ...
  • You like that…
    “You like that, don’t you.” It’s not a question. It’s a statement of fact. “You’re such a perverted slut.” “What sort of a person would get off on that? Who would come from ...
  • A New Year Task
    I have given myself a task for 2019. I’m writing about it to make myself accountable. Feel free to hold me to this task and to check in on my ...
  • Things are looking up.
    Several people I follow on twitter posted their ten most popular blog posts of the year. Out of interest, I looked up which was my most popular of the year. ...
  • The Art of Pleasure
    Life is what you make of it. Or rather, you can make more of life if you’re motivated. I don’t have the most exciting life. Most of it revolves around ...
  • Season’s Greetings
    This time of year is full of feelings. Joy, love, exhaustion, frustration, anticipation and more. We’ve just moved through the longest night and the cycle continues to turn. This image is ...
  • Contrast
    Warm flesh and cold chain. Pleasure and pain.
  • Chained
    You know you are kinky when your gift to him comes from an industrial steel supplier. We probably won’t see each other again before Christmas, so we exchanged presents today. Here is ...
  • Bokeh
    Bokeh feels so unfamiliar to read. I have to keep checking that I have it right. As far as i can tell, it’s all about a sharp point of focus ...
  • Fat!
    Content Note: body image, taboo, fat. I’m pretty much always working in who I am and working at my relationship with myself. It isn’t easy. Past trauma means that I often ...
  • Cuppa?
    Fancy sharing a cuppa and having a natter?
  • I am…
    This is such a hard post to find the right words for. The idea is so clear in my head yet trying to capture it feels beyond me. The number ...
  • Press my button.
    The gentlest breeze, the subtle caress – it doesn’t matter what the light touch is from, my nipples react. I crave touch. I yearn for the deliberate contact. The rub of ...
  • Equinox
    I love the turning of the seasons. The moments of the year when the rhythms change have always resonated with me. It makes me feel in touch with the earth. ...