“To me, photography is an art of observation. It’s about finding something interesting in an ordinary place… I’ve found it has little to do with the things you see and everything to do with the way you see them.”
— Elliott Erwitt

I have been trying to express why I have so many pictures and why I take them. This quote captures so much for me. My photographs and those taken by others are all about capturing and expressing aspects of who I am. That’s why there is such variety of mood, attitude and intent. Just like me, my pictures range through hot, sensual, harsh, beautiful and filthy.

Learning photography skills is still on my to-do list as my collection here has always been focused on a thought, mood or moment rather than a technique.

These pictures are a long lasting and still evolving relationship with myself.

My photo posts

  • Unzipped
    Zips are hot. They are immediately tempting when you know that undoing them can reveal what you really want. Wearing something that has the right sort of zips is a ...
  • Mine
    He is mine. I am his. We switch. Our dynamic is amazing and fluid. I’m Domme, and, I am held down and beaten. There is a greed and desperation for ...
  • Fishnets
    For a very long time, my twitter avatar was me fastening suspenders to the top of my fishnet stocking. Why? Because, to me, it captured a sensual sexuality in a ...
  • Valen-tie
    In a shameless tie-in with Valentine’s day which was on Friday, I’ve been inspired to try some different shapes with my rope. I couldn’t resist testing this one out. Experimenting with ...
  • Soothe me with pain.
    If you read this post, you’ll know that I am not in the best headspace today. If you keep track of what I share of my life, you’ll also know ...
  • Contrast
    It is Sinful Sunday prompt this weekend and the challenge was to choose one word to capture in an image. My word is contrast. I see so many contrasts in ...
  • The “trouble” with getting older…
    It was my birthday last week so, of course, I asked my favourite sadist for a birthday caning. The trouble with getting older is that it is a lot of ...
  • Phenomenal Women
    If you’re really lucky, you know an amazing woman. If you’re exceptionally lucky, you know more than one. I can go further than that. I am so lucky that one of ...
  • Duality
    Both strong. Both confident. Both me. Do you want to choose, or do you want both?
  • Mistress of Light and Shadow.
    I am ready. Are you?
  • Shower
    Naked. The first touch tentative, ready to pull back. Moving in, exploring, letting the warmth trickle at first and then cascade. Each twist and stretch allowing the water to flow ...
  • Looking back and moving on.
    End of the year and end of the decade. I have drafted this post several times and not been happy with it. Looking back on where I was a decade ...
  • Centred
    I have a lot of learning to do about using rope but today I found out that I can calm my mind and centre myself by tying myself. I am not ...
  • Zip!
    Sometimes I am awesome and grab a moment of ambition and self-belief. A couple of weeks ago, I was awake at 3 am randomly browsing and kept coming back to ...
  • A Little Light Bondage
    Wrapped around my flesh, the wire harsh and tight. Is this a dark pleasure or is it light?
  • Touch me
    I think I’ve always known that touch is important to me. Even as a young child, I would demand that family members would run their fingers up and down my ...
  • The Light Shines
    The sun doesn’t shine down there but something is shining bright today. Leave a comment and then click the lips for more Sinful Sunday delights.
  • H is for…
    H is for me being a hungry, happy Honey, with her hand in my hair, giving head.
  • Peeping voyeur
    Today and accidental slip with the camera produced the image. The picture was captured and the camera half slipped behind something. It made me think of someone watching me. Although ...
  • Shadowed beauty
    I love light and shadows although I rarely deliberately make use of them in my oictures. Today, I changed that. Today, the shadows define my beauty.
  • Fisting
    Sometimes I am a walking advertisement for “Do as I say, not as I do,” but I will share more about that soon. The Kink of the Week is Fisting. Fisting ...
  • Hand
    I know that if you work your way through this blog, you’ll find lots of pictures of my arse. Finding out my arse looks good was quite a surprise when ...
  • Curiosity
    “Curiosity killed the cat,” Fesgao remarked, his dark eyes unreadable. Aly rolled her eyes. Why did everyone say that to her? “People always forget the rest of the saying,” she complained. ...
  • Tied
    I’ve mentioned here that I am having new adventures and experiences. They are more than adventures. I adore this man. He is a really important part of my life. As a ...
  • Intimate Touch
    One of the things about not seeing each other as often as we would like to, is that we make the most of every moment together. When we cuddle up, ...