I can be a contradiction of intensely private and also incredibly open. I write honestly about myself, sharing my reflections on both joyful and difficult times. I also muse about change and emotions. I censor my voice a lot of the time so posts that make it to here are the ones where I believe I have something important to share.

I plan to write more journal posts so watch this space to get to know inside my soul more.


My journal posts

  • The Eye of the Storm September 22, 2015
    I like to think of myself as quite a together person. I am emotionally intelligent. I am caring and supportive to others. I don’t get involved in drama and I ...
  • Long Distance and Talk September 19, 2015
    This is an unusual post for me and I am not completely sure whether this is the right place to put it, but it feels right for now. As most ...
  • The Assumed Confidence of a Flirt September 17, 2015
    You might be shocked to know that I am a flirt. I was going to write that I am sometimes called a flirt but that would imply that it was ...
  • Twist September 13, 2015
    You may already know that I have started making whips. Yesterday was very exciting because I delivered my first commissioned order. I love the process of making the whips. Once made, ...
  • The Good, The Bad and The Horny August 29, 2015
    This post is about the ups and downs and ins and outs of having a high sex drive. Drive often doesn’t feel like the right word to me. Maybe voracious ...
  • Safety belt August 29, 2015
    I was away this week. There was a last minute change of plan as to where I stayed. Although the place was beautiful, it had no signal or Wi-Fi. Normally ...
  • Get it on at Eroticon August 9, 2015
    Last weekend, I had an amazing time at my first Eroticon. I didn’t take many pictures during the day as I was busy drinking in all the experiences. Here is ...
  • Greetings before we meet – Eroticon July 27, 2015
    NAME (and Twitter name if you have one) I am Honey or HappyComelucky or @ht_honey. Honey is the easiest way to get my attention. Is this your first time at Eroticon? If ...
  • Hormones! July 13, 2015
    I can definitely have a moan about hormones. There are many jokes about women and hormones but the reality isn’t so much fun. Of course, hormones are really clever. we ...
  • Am I masochistic submissive, or am I a submissive masochist? June 2, 2015
    Am I masochistic submissive, or am I a submissive masochist? Maybe I am a masochist and a submissive. I have had this tumbling around in my head for a while ...
  • Two Years! Who? What? Where? Why? May 31, 2015
    So, here we are. My second blogging anniversary. When I started I had no idea how this blog would go and whether it would work for me. Clearly, as I ...
  • A quest for questions May 27, 2015
    Well, as often happens, things have been very busy and as a result this post is much later than I planned. This weekend is the second anniversary of my blog. I ...
  • Sharing to be able to see. April 16, 2015
    One of the things that I have found very positive and empowering is sharing pictures of me. I have been very lucky and to date, I have had very positive ...
  • Exposed April 14, 2015
    This week’s Wicked Wednesday prompt is ‘Exposed’. There are, of course, different meanings to being exposed. One of them is about feeling vulnerable as you are physically exposed to others. Back ...
  • #reminder April 11, 2015
    People who know me, know that I can be a little bit cheeky and impulsive. This week I have been high on happiness while I stayed with my man. Those ...
  • Today I am angry. April 1, 2015
    I’m angry. Not able to sit down and stay still angry. This isn’t me. I don’t do anger. I do annoyance at times but I don’t do anger. Except for sometimes. ...
  • Who am I? What am I? March 28, 2015
    I have been thinking a lot about my identity recently. It was started by an activity on a coaching course which has spilt over into some introspection for me. I ...
  • Lippy March 15, 2015
    This picture is one that I didn’t imagine I would post up until very recently. I have a lot of confidence in my body even though I would prefer a ...
  • Strike me happy March 7, 2015
    The last month has been very busy and although I have seen my man during that time, we hadn’t had a proper opportunity for an extended play. That changed last ...
  • Sense February 28, 2015
    This month’s Sinful Sunday prompt is all about senses. Of course, we are typically taught that touch, taste, smell, sight and sound are the main senses. My first instinct was ...
  • Build it and you will come. February 18, 2015
    I actually squealed with delight and jumped up to snog my man passionately when he gave me a Lego set to build. I love Lego but I normally buy it ...
  • Restoration February 18, 2015
    This post has been bothering at me for a very long time. I keep trying to ignore it and push it away, but it keeps coming back. I have a ...
  • Changes to the landscape. February 8, 2015
    I added something new to my landscape as a birthday treat last month. Everything about it was quite an experience. I hadn’t booked an appointment, so from the deep breath ...
  • Crisp beginnings January 2, 2015
    I am writing this post while I am dosed up to the eyeballs on cold meds and feeling really rough. It isn’t the greatest start to the New Year. Surprisingly, ...